Stage 4 (Fourth or Fifth Week) The Quitting
Plan your acts wisely. Take advantage of your knowledge on your smoking habits that 
you’ve gathered by your daily writing and act accordingly to your "sub-habits" and 
smoking states. For example: decide to stop drinking coffee for a week or two (until 
any connection between coffee and cigarettes will be gone). Avoid situations that 
usually awake the passion to cigarettes in you. In brief, avoid, temporarily, any 
activities that has a strong connection with cigarettes in you.
Choose to quit smoking when you’re calm. A time of many pressures or excitement is not 
the proper time for this task. Nonetheless, don’t use those times as an excuse to 
postpone the decision. Before quitting smoking, the habit of smoking must be "defrosted" 
and broken, systematically, for at least two weeks. 
There are some smokers who set to themselves the absolute quitting date in advance and 
according to that decision they attack their "sub-habits"(decreasing them) and then, 
without considering their amount of progress, they completely stop smoking in the date 
they set to themselves. There are some smokers, who don’t set the quitting date in 
advance, and during the reduction they reach to an amount of 1-5 cigarettes per day 
and then wait with the smoking for an hour and another hour, and afterward they 
postpone it to the evening, to the next morning, to the next day etc. This way or 
another, after you’ve succeed not smoking for a whole day - tell all your friends 
the next day that you’ve decided to quit smoking for good. Say it in pride. Such a 
thing will strengthen your decision, prevent other people to automatically offer 
you a cigarette, help you be strong in difficult moments and make the quitting 
process easier. 
The response of your friends about your declaration and your attempt to quit will 
probably differ. Usually, both smokers and non-smokers will back you up, but that 
response from smokers might be just skin deep - it is possible that they will 
respond with surprise or mock joined with a lighting of a cigarette. Naturally, 
those friends want to quit also, but they are unable to do so - yet. 
The attitude of your friends depends on you too. For example: if you want to 
convince them to quit smoking, it is likely to assume that you’ll bump into hostility 
and scorn. The preaching on the importance of quitting smoking, may cause even your 
best friends to try and divert you from your own decision to quit.
 
 
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